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How do you know that a certain guy is in love with you? Actually there are so many ways on how to show our affection to someone and there are so many ways how to decode it. There are times that we are showing our affection to someone we love unconsciously through our actions. There are also times that because we can’t understand the action of some men it causes friction in a relationship. Hopefully girls will understand now their men by decoding their actions when they are really in love. This is not only for girls but also for guys who are not aware sometimes that they are in love. It’s a cliche for a reason…men aren’t always best at showing how they feel, even when they’re head over heels. Here are some ways that men show you their love:

He Opens Up

Emotional intimacy isn’t easy for anyone, so if he’s baring his soul to you, it’s not because he likes hearing himself talk…alright, not just because he likes hearing himself talk.

He Does the Dirty Work

Taking out the garbage and scrubbing the bathroom floor may not seem romantic, but it can be his way of showing you he cares: by helping you out and trying to make your life easier. He’s not ironing your work pants because he likes to; he’s doing it because he wants to make you happy.

He Asks for Your Help

Whether he wants your input on a blowout with his boss, or asks you to tag along and help him pick out a birthday present for his mom, he’s asking for your opinion because he respects you and cares what you think, a sure sign he’s smitten.

He Loves PDA (Public Display of Attention)

Alright, sometimes you can do without his groping in the cereal aisle at the supermarket, but take it as a compliment that he can’t keep his hands off you. He’s proud to call you his and to show you off, and sometimes there’s no better way to show his appreciation than to give you a little squeeze!

He Chooses the Perfect Gift

Don’t worry if his gifts are duds, but if he consistently hits it out of the park with his present shopping skills, take it as a compliment: he’s not only a good listener, he’s also thoughtful…and willing to spend hours searching for exactly the right thing

He Introduces You to His Family

You can bet that as soon as he introduces a girlfriend to his mother, she’ll be on his case about grandchildren. So if he’s getting the two of you together, he knows what he’s getting himself into and that there might be a future with you.

He Makes You Part of His Inner Circle

Folding you into his circle is more than just introducing you to his friends. A man who’s gaga over you and can see a future will make an effort to make you part of his life. If he’s scheduling standing double dates with his coupled friends and inviting you to his weekly drinking night with his friends, he wants you to stick around for a while.

He Makes Himself a Part of Your Life

If he’s joining you for your boring Sunday morning errands and cuddling up on the couch with you with your and your roomies for Gossip Girl every week, he’s in it for the long haul.

THE FRIEND OF HEART

U LOVE IT............BUT THEY R ONE

Friendship isn't always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, have a hundred different words for snow. Unfortunately, the English language isn't quite as innovative, though it has vast opportunities to differentiate meaning. Certainly, Love is one of those opportunities. And so, too, is Friendship.
Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.
Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and mores (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.
Let the countdown begin.

Take my life

For about thirty years of my existence, I live my life in darkness, I live a life full of lies, full of tears, full of fears, disaster, I was blinded by the truth about what’s really life meant for me. At the age of sixteen I am already engage in different abuses in life. Any vices that you can think of, I know nothing but to survive in the midst of darkness, to survive, to fight against life but I never succeed because no matter how I tried to be that someone who is a perfect example there is something missing in my life…an emptiness that I can’t explain and can never be explain by human mind.

I been someone who is ready and willing to listen to other people, I been someone who gave advices to the problem of other people but I feel like there’s no one will be there for me when I need someone to listen, I feel like I am alone whenever I have problems in life. I been asking myself why? why? why?

September 7, 2010, Tuesday, about 7:15 in the evening at the Ballroom of Makati Sports Club, He takes my life. He takes all the burdens that I have inside. He takes all the sadness in my heart. He driven my life into something that I am always wanted for my whole life…Peace inside of me. I have experienced for the first time pure happiness, I have experienced that I am fulfilled, I have experienced for the first time that I fear nothing, I see the light as I accept Him as my one and only God. I submitted myself to Him and now I can say that I am peaceful because He knows better than me, He knows what’s the best thing for me, He is almighty and I have nothing to worry about my life. I been a sinner but He accepted me and loved me more than the love I can think of. I been away from Him but He searched me and take control of my life, a blessed life, a life that not all people are enjoying since they have not found Him yet.

“Lord, thank you for coming into my life…You are always there to Deliver me, You are always there to Heal me, You are always there to Meet my needs, You are always there to Keep me from falling and you are always there to SAVE me. I have found peace and meaning in my life, I pray that there are more people around the world who will find you and find the meaning of their lives in you!”

What If She Leaves Without Saying Good-bye

I'm writing this poem 15 days before my best friend leaves for Typee. I'm dedicating this poem to her hoping and praying that it will fix the fight that we are in the middle of. I don't want her to leave without saying Goodbye just because of a little argument that in her eyes isn't so little.

What If She Leaves Without Saying
Good-bye?

What are we fighting over?I simply do not know.You have me lost in thoughts,I'm tossing to and fro.Soon you will be gone,And you'll blame this all on me.What can I say or do,So the mistake we both can see.Why did you pick this fight,With me before you go?I'm all alone and lost,But of this you do not know.If you don't say goodbye,Before you turn and leave.What am I supposed to do,Except to cry and grieve?!I thought our friendship was special,I thought it meant a lot.If you felt the same way,Why are we stuck in this knot?I don't like good-byes,But in this we have no choice.If you won't speak to me,the good-bye's will come from MY voice.We've managed through other fights,But this one's not the same.I'm not having any fun,And I won't to stop this game.I'm not good at soirees,So I'll do my best with this.I have one last request,It is my goodbye wish.I wish that we were friends again,Before WE say GOODBYE.Now that this is off my chest,I wait and sit and sigh.